Sicut-Dico

Category: Events

  • Dates and locations

    (TW: short suicide mention, massive solipsism)

    UPD: May is fully booked.

    This post is for everyone who actually wants to meet me or cares for me otherwise. Yes, I know it became difficult recently. I’m also freaking out with the speed of my life. But it’s okay. It’s normal for me.

    The only solution for this I see is planning. Yes, the plans tend to fall apart, but that’s why we have backup plans, right?

    I recharged my batteries and am ready to share. I have a fresh set of warnings though. It’s not gonna get less disturbing than it already is. If it is there, it’s there. If what I say, write, or do is already at least partially disturbing for you – this will only get worse. And it has to get a lot worse before it can get any better. I’m sorry if you are not ready for me. It’s not your fault. Neither it’s mine. The world is broken, not us.

    Anyways.

    Here is what I have on my plate for the next couple of months in terms of

    dates,

    locations,

    and requests for the universe.

    Now you can’t tell me you didn’t know.

    I can be booked alone or with co-creators. My calendar is especially well synchronized with Gene and WO and we still have some free dates in July and a strong will to undermine the System.

    May

    The first two weeks of May I was freezing my ass to an average temp of +11C in Norway. Turned out it was necessary to speed up the process of killing the old version of myself. That one that wants to kill me from time to time.

    Looks like I’ve found its weak spot. Finally!

    I’m back in Prague and generally available for bookings and creative exchange here, in Berlin by arrangements, and what’s most important for now: ONLINE.

    Dates:

    27.05. – Kitkatclub Berlin – in charge of Let’Z Fetish Academy station (clinic area) – if you plan to be in the club and wish to collaborate on content creation – contact me asap.

    19/24/29/31 – creative support groups (CBD project) – free online meetings for creators on topics of motivation, mental health, addictions, financial independence, and productivity.

    Online groups on the 19th and 29th with be hosted on Chaturbate. The topic is SEX WORK, of course. Here is a post with more information on this event.

    Locations:

    By the end of the month, I’m planning to balance between Prague and Berlin, with a few stops in the Czech countryside.

    Accepting recommendations and company for wakeboarding, wind, and kitesurfing locations in CZ, DE and around EU.

    Requests to the universe:

    We are still looking for a home in Prague for Sil and her 2 children. She is in Kyiv for now but will be back next week and I think this is my most important wish this month: to find a comfortable place for them. So if you know a real estate agent who is not an asshole could be ready to help us, or a landlord renting out 2KK+ or a bigger flat in Prague, or might know one of them, please share this request and point them to me.

    June

    UPD: fully booked for June

    dates & Locations:

    1st-15th – creative escape in the Czech countryside

    8th – Psycho KitKat Berlin,

    15th-25th Athens, Greece,

    26th-31st Berlin

    ONLINE:

    5/12/19/26 CBD creative support groups

    Requests to the universe:

    1 music studio, 1 rehearsal base, accountants, lawyers, drivers, likeminded people, 1 sailing teacher, 1 good psychiatrist, 1 wakeboard trainer

    July

    Partially available in Berlin and Prague, planning a show in Prague and another creative escape in the countryside after it.

    Feel free to reach out about booking specific dates, my July is flexible until the end of May. More info will appear later.

    Requests to the universe:

    BDSM ballet’s first action must happen in July, not later. Not sure if I can or should explain why. I trust myself in this and asking you to join me.

    If you know me and managed to read until here – write the fuck to me already, let’s plan something. If you don’t know me, but like what I do consider supporting me or spreading the word about my projects.

    Love!

  • Naked for Ukraine 13.03.2023

    TW: nudity, war, capitalism

    Welcome to my punished Monday!

    I decided to show you my day today. As close as possible.

    You can watch me working on my website and waxplay project. Naked. All the tips collected today will go to helping Ukraine or in my case specific Ukrainians.

    But money is not the main goal here. I feel the need to do this for a few bigger reasons. I’ll explain them on the way.

    Now let’s start with the show. I plan to be online until 9 pm Berlin time with 30 min breaks every 1,5 hours.

    All updates appear here below.

    let’s go!

    11:32 As usual the first attempt to broadcast failed. I’m restarting my laptop and I’m online now.

    11:44 The first statement here today was originally meant for one specific person, but I think it might be useful for a lot more people to hear it.

    You have an absolute right to do what you want in this life and not what old white people in suits want you to.

    Your life belongs to you. The world belongs to you. Not the other way around.

    Artists have superpowers. They can process pain and anger into something else. Something beautiful.

    The world is abusing artists. Don’t let them.

    12:20 Posted an announcement on Mastodon

    Did a small workout with a broomstick and sent some work emails.

    The next round will be in the kitchen: I’m not sure if I want to make candles or cheesecake first, but you will get more action for sure.

    12:59 Off for the first break. See you in half an hour

    13:45 back for the next live round. This time we are in my kitchen and we start with candles.

    14:34 Looks like I have a forced break. I’ll restart the system and come back

    14:45 Small candles are in the fridge, I’m staying online a bit longer to finish UV reflective tips for big candles.

    15:32 I’m tired and having another break. We will continue with the kitchen business in half an hour.

    Here we are
    17:27 current POV

    Cheesecake is canceled due to the lack of mascarpone in the nearby supermarket but I’m almost done with the set of candles.

    I miss Sil so much! On the other hand, this experience alone is valuable as hell. I received a lot of silly compliments, a bunch of new followers on different platforms, and got used to the camera even more.

    This was the good stuff. Now let’s get to the answers I promised you earlier.

    The blue elephant in the yellow room
    Some posts are not easy. But very necessary.

    20:28 I ordered pizza, wrote a few more emails, booked a ticket to Berlin for this weekend, edited and published a post, wrote another email, finished a few more candles, and now checking my list for today.

    21.03 As usual, not done with all the tasks. But it’s normal for me.

    I’m a bit exhausted so it’s time to say good night to yall and relax.

    Thanks to everyone who joined me today and those who helped me to feel real!

  • Thoughts, nudes, Gene and candle packaging (train update)

    hello, darlings

    I have no pictures on my phone from last Saturday and half of the performance that I did that night unfortunately was not documented at all.

    However.

    slides from the performance on 25.02.2023 at Kitkatclub Berlin
    slides from the performance on 25.02.2023 at Kitkatclub Berlin
    slides from the performance on 25.02.2023 at Kitkatclub Berlin

    That night for sure is going to stay in my memory and most likely in the memory of others who witnessed the show. Some pictures are coming for sure, but later. Today I only give you a chance to see how Gene was seeing me in the last few days. I have to say, I’m feeling inspired and refreshed.

    As if we got one step closer to overthrowing capitalism and killing putin at the same time.

    Below are the pictures of my outfit where I want to advertise a piece from Danilov Harness and in general just keep pointing your attention to amazing kinky brands from Ukraine.

    leather chain by Danilov Harness
    originally this was a skirt
    but I mostly wear it on my chest
    I got this item as a gift from a lover from Dnipro
    I’m wearing it weekly for already more than a year
    the quality is quite good!
    I’ll show you more ways of using it soon
    support Ukranian fetish brands

    I’m very grateful to my colleagues from Let’Z Fetish academy and Ari Denaro specifically for letting me do my art and supporting me in my craziness.

    ALSO! A huge thanks to Ben for being so helpful and brave, sorry I burned your wiener!

    Another gallery of pictures where I’m already a lot more dressed shows the process of packing and signing candles. I don’t buy any special package material, all candles are packed and signed by me, and with packing materials that were already in use.

    Gene has a few more candles in Berlin for picking up. The store is close to being launched. Now preparing drops for Paris and London and can accept 1-2 custom orders.

    That’s more or less it for now and the train is almost arriving in Prague. Thanks for reading me.

    Love!

    Sicut

  • Chaturbate theory

    Update 3 (06.02.23): yay, first tips received, so we plan to come back tomorrow, on Tuesday 7.02.23, 8 am Berlin time. Thanks for all the comments and shares.

    Update 2 (05.02.23): The next live cam show is scheduled for Monday, 9 am Berlin time.

    Update 1: done for tonight, thanks to everyone who joined, here are the resulting snapshots. We might continue, it was fun.

    I have to find out what happens if I allow people to sneak after my candle-making process live that I also intend to do dressed in outfits I usually wear at Kikatclub in Berlin.

    I’m not sure if I can fully explain why exactly I decided to test this theory before the others, but I’m very sure it’s one of those moments when it’s a lot easier just to do the thing and find out.

    Shall we?

    Here is the link to my Chaturbate account, but you can also watch me just here below

  • Thank You! (reflection update and Psycho Dark gallery)

    June’s reflection brought me to not only publish that nude yoga video (June’s reflection part 1) for public observance but also to write this appreciation post, where I want to say a massive

    THANK YOU

    to the people who supported me with my exploration journey in 2022.

    First of all

    Thank you, Patrons! Without you believing in me at the beginning of this year, I wouldn’t be able to gather the inner resources to do what I eventually did.

    This website is the result of my fight for finding my own way in this life.

    The show is on, thanks to you.

    The reflection project is my attempt to make my blog better structured and more consistent. But I feel like it’s a great investment in life for people like me, who like to live fast and devalue our own achievements. It feels good to slow down, breathe, and look back.

    thank you, Ari Denaro

    For the door to the kinky Narnia backstage of Let’Z Fetish Academy that you so kindly opened for me, and thanks for supplying me with tools and techniques as well.

    Ari Denaro is showing how things are done. You can see me trying to compete in the background.

    But most of all, thank you for accepting me for who I am, accepting my ways, and the ethics that I carry. Thank you for your free spirit, curiosity, and will to understand new.

    I’m grateful for your trust. But you know this already. So just fucking big ass thank you, dear Ari!

    Another huge thank you goes to Julia Vilianen

    for the amazing headpiece, for being an even more amazing friend, and for all your talent and help! I can’t wait for the next round of creating something together.

    The outfit for Psycho Dark party in June that you see in the gallery below was done by Julia. I think I’d like to wear it more next year, I like I how it makes me feel. If you go to Ari’s website you can see more pictures from Psycho parties btw.

    thank you, PierreW.de for the pictures

    It’s always a pleasure to deal with you, and thank you for being so sweet.

    Here is the gallery. Enjoy!

    Thank you, beautiful Ángela. You were such a pleasure!

    Since I started naming people, I’m not sure exactly how to stop. It’s so many of you, my dear friends and lovers, to whom I want to scream: THANK YOU FOR BEING IN MY LIFE.

    But let’s make a deal. I’ll name the Slut, Gene, and Sil because I already introduced them here and they are my closest family. Thank you, darlings, just for who you are.

    I also have to name Shanti and Kay, because they are involved in the recent posts. Shanti gave me an Interview about hooks and ropes, and Kay was once a very cool creative partner in crime I used her pictures to illustrate another post (Born weird) that I decided to make public this year.

    So the rest of the deal is that I stop naming people I want to thank, so we can all have our lives. And you start clicking on the links and getting to know me a bit better. Because that was the whole plan.

    Support my blog if you like the content. I’m planning to have a few days off from posting now, and come back with fresh nudes and stories. I still have so much to tell!

    Thank you all,

    love you,

    Sicut

  • Dates announcement Dec / Jan

    Update: posted in Prague Meetups on Fetlife

    I provide more info on social media closer to the event dates. Please mind the rules of the location and my own: don’t assume, ask.

    I’m open to collabs in Prague and Berlin, reach out with your ideas and available dates to sil@sicut-dico.com

    December:

    22.12.2022 Psychokitkatclub, Berlin, (Bible reading sessions, premier);

    23.12.2022-25.12.2022 Artsy meetup in Berlin, (locations TBA; kinksters welcome);

    24.12.2022 Let’Z Fetish – Academy​​, Berlin, (Bible reading sessions on demand);

    29.12.2022 Atelier, Prague (Bible reading, sessions) – as planned so far, special guest: Bogolepova.

    January: ?! Possible change of date, TBA soon.

    08.01.2022 Engels, Berlin

    Preaching event with Bogolepova. Kinksters friendly event

    FREE EVENT * / Donations welcome

    * registration needed! Please email us in order to secure a place on the guest list. by writing to this email (newsletter[at]bogolepov.eu) you confirm that you agree to receive emails from us

  • pillow talk with antiShanti

    I met Shanti through the kitkatclub’s dungeon master, Ari, and on the first evening, she taught me how to make a handle for a human.

    Questions for Shanti I gathered from my Instagram audience and one of the popular ones was – how do the scars from body suspensions look like? Here is the answer from Shanti’s back.

    The Pillow talks idea was one of the most ambitious this year, I thought I’d make them once a month. Haha. The next one should be with Ari Denaro, btw. let’s see. Below you can see the key topics with time stamps, and links to videos that I used from Shanti’s Vimeo account.

    This conversation was recorded in two 20 min pieces in my study in Berlin with 10 minutes break, my idea was to make it fast and real. It’s definitely real, I didn’t cut off much material. The “fast” part obviously leaves room for improvement.

    From my pimping side, I’d like to inform you about options to use my service to book a workshop, session, or a show with Shanti in Berlin or Prague, if you need a partner or want to be tied up you can also leave your contact here, or simply write your request to booking@sicut-dico.com. If you are too shy for all that, at least follow her on Insta.

    • 0:30 – introduction
    • 1:30 – ropes or hooks?
    • 6:00 – the difference between traditional shibari and rope art
    • 7:30 – workshop introduction
    • 8:30 – different ropes for different sensations
    • 11:00 – workshop levels and my personal experience
    • 13:00 – about partners for workshops
    • 16:00 – workshops for advanced levels
    • 17:30 – jumps and suspension with hooks
    • 18:00 – Shanti’s first jump and personal experience 
    • 19:30 – rope jumping team
    • 20:30 – how to begin or watch others 
    • 23:45 – scars
    • 25:00 – social media info

    videos used for the background: RopeFest 2020, STILL FALLING FOR YOU ’20 Ropes for Aleksa, Amplitude jump. The Sinner Team, 2010 – all from https://vimeo.com/sashashanti

  • open call for submissive individuals

    Let’s get to know each other. This post might be a point of extra interest for all kinds of exhibitionists, but not only.

    I’m inviting subs, slaves, bottoms, pets, pain sluts, and princesses of all genders to join our projects: shows, film productions, and private experiences under my personal supervision.

    It’s important for us to create safe experiences, thus the careful and respectful selection process of potential participants, which includes an online application and further personal meetings for a cup of tea and a chat. This is done for the sake of safety and mutual respect. Kinky networking will be available too.

    No judgment. No discrimination. Be respectful and patient.

    I will contact you with further instructions. 

    photo credit Elad Itzkin Photography

  • alien birthday – videos

  • KitKat alien birthday – pictures & videos

    This party definitely deserves a longer story. It was a private party with free entrance. Someone just bought the basement and us as entertainment. The first gallery and videos are mine. Below there is another gallery by Elad Itzkin Photography.

    Elad Itzkin Photography