Author: Sicut Dico

  • Meet Gene and come to our concert

    Gene is like a sibling to me, also a talented artist, passionate activist, and generally a very kind person. But I’m also their manager. Well. We use this word for people who respect the concept of artists being fully dependent on labels and streaming services.

    For everyone else, I’m Gene’s pimp. I’m simply helping them to survive in this shitty world and literally not get fucked by clients or corporations. Fucked in a bad way. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against fucking. But I really care for things to be consensual, and unfortunately, this is not how the world treats artists at the moment.

    If you would be interested to learn more about how I help Gene to gain their independence as an artist, leave a comment.

    Otherwise, we are happy to invite you to our first live concert after the pandemic, link to tickets and more info is here.

  • KitKat alien birthday – pictures & videos

    This party definitely deserves a longer story. It was a private party with free entrance. Someone just bought the basement and us as entertainment. The first gallery and videos are mine. Below there is another gallery by Elad Itzkin Photography.

    Elad Itzkin Photography
  • sexy-couple (letzfetish-guests)

    One of my first nights alone in Kitkat’s basement and this couple really made it cheesy hot!

    They were happy to have pictures and a session with me, and I felt like I did things right that night. I’m especially grateful for the permission to publish the very exact moments. It was a pleasure to meet you guys!

    Huge thanks to Ari for the trust to keep Let’Z Fetish station warm and safe.

    UPD. Now looking back at this night I feel the need to add a remark, expressing how uncertain I was at that moment with everything else in my life. That was the role where I could feel confident and appreciated. For the beginner me it meant the world.

    I think I can pretty much call that a career choice acceptance moment. Once again, thanks to everyone involved. I’m glad to have my perverted family growing every day.

  • day 1

    My palms are sweaty and heartbeat elevates when I´m typing this text. This feeling of excitement and anticipation. I absolutely love it.

    I guess things could never happen in any other way. This post is about the real day One: when I´m kinda going to work and my job will be spanking everyone´s butts. How awesome is that?

    Of course, the story hasn´t started yesterday. But before a was just a trainee visiting the club, then things kinda escalated and thanks to Ari Denaro I ended up being in charge of the dungeon for the very first time. Tonight.

    Having this event on the first weekend of pride month is a special pleasure on top of that. I know it´s July in Germany, but I can´t care less. Pride month should be every month.

    See you in KitkatClub tonight! Join us for workshops and sessions with Let´Z Fetish academy, let’s keep the place safe and kinky together.

  • First wax play workshop with Let´Z Fetish Academy at KitkatClub

    Fascinating. I’m in love with the range of possible play scenarios. How is it that I never cared for candles before?

    Pictures and videos by xshamaya_photographyx 

  • Let´Z Fetish Academy at KitkatClub / Princess and whips workshop – photos and videos

    Another workshop with whips. With every workshop, I was gaining confidence. Tools are just tools and nothing more without the knowledge and experience on using them. Ari was a good teacher. Funny and demanding at the same time. I could smell his experience.

    Princesses do actually exist btw. I found one obviously. She was brave and pretty that night, but it didn’t help her to escape the punishment. 

    Pictures by NirvanaBerni

    Video credit: Let’ZFetish Academy

  • First workshop with whips and floggers

    That was a workout! Sweaty, but fun impact play workshop with Let´Z Fetish academy and Ari Denaro.

    This is pretty much all I could say at that point. I swear I enjoyed every moment of it. But it was just overwhelming. I’m adding now a little more info, but planning to consult with the slut on editing this post further.

    Each person I used for workshops I would meet before for at least an hour of talking. Emi is a sweet person and my very first official training sub, our relationship already evolved behind that, of course, but at that moment they served as an excellent test subject to me: punctual, experienced, clear, and easy to communicate, always happy to provide feedback.

    Ari was very demanding and I felt like I didn’t pay enough attention to the sub well being, but Emi was reporting green and Ari kept yelling “harder”. That was fun. And yes, I was sweating like hell. You can see that in the pictures.

    Pictures by NirvanaBerni.

  • As I say

    First things first: this is a queer space where respect is a top priority, so
    please be kind to each other and then feel free to be weird as well. There is no place for judgment.

    Now we get to another important topic. Which is – me, of course. What else could this blog even be about? It´s about my dark side as well as it´s about self-love, acceptance, vulnerability, and control. Or the absence of control for some.

    First I wrote: “It’s about becoming a Mistress.” – but it´s not exactly correct, I have to tell you because there is no becoming of any kind happening inside me. Unleashing – perhaps is a better term. Mistress has been there the whole time, not sure if it´s just her alone. I could describe the process as an inventory of possible personas and characters hidden inside me. Some of them are more ready to get out than others, but I can guarantee, that even for me this is highly fascinating.

    What else? I like to introduce myself as a kind pervert, a passionate exhibitionist, and a curious explorer of the limits and borders of my own and others. On my non-kinky side, I´m happily partnered for life, living in an open marriage, low carb enthusiast, a marketing strategist, and mental health activist. But this blog also has a sub-task of teaching me to take myself less seriously, so let´s stick to the kinky part.

    Anyways! In my quest for world domination, I decided to start with your butt. So pants down because I will spank it with stories of my kinky explorations.

    If you like what I do consider supporting my work or follow me on social media and help spreading the word about me, whatever you choose, you are welcome here.